When one comes for help now, don’t give advice instead. It serves little but it irritates a lot. This reminds me of a story:
Nasreddin went to Bekir the rich merchant to ask for one gold curuş :
“Why do you need to borrow so much money?” asked Bekir, in turn.
“I want to buy a camel to work my field.”
“To work your field you need an ox, not a camel.” said Bekir.
"Excuse me esteemed Bekir,” retorted Nasreddin, “Do you know the difference between money and advice?"